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The Accuracy of the Handwriting Science\u00a0From an Arabic Point of View by Lina Husham
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As I was growing up, I started to notice there are two kinds of people: happy and unhappy. \u00a0I understood that there are two major feelings that shape our days and forms our lives (happiness and sadness). \u00a0Happiness is the one feeling that without it, everything else seems meaningless and pale. \u00a0 Whether it’s success that you have, money, beauty, house, kids, you name it\u2026without happiness, it’s nothing.<\/p>\n

So I started looking for the reasons that makes us feel this way or that way by asking everyone around me and going into long talks with my father at a very early age, discussing life matters and issues whenever we got the chance to do that. \u00a0It was in one of those discussions when I first got introduced to our holy book (Al Quraan) knowing that the first word of Al Quraan is (iqraa= read). \u00a0That alone set a strong belief in me that it all starts from reading \u2026 reading .. and reading.<\/p>\n

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Yes this is actually how Islam began (regardless of how people perceive Islam nowadays). \u00a0So naturally I started to read more and more each day looking for answers to the question that I first started my research with: why some people are happy and some are not. \u00a0 My hunger for knowledge lead me to all kinds of books – from a simple mini book for quotes to a series of books talking about ancient history. \u00a0The key for my question’s answer was in front of my eyes all the time. \u00a0I just didn\u2019t take it into consideration. \u00a0It was in a simple verse in the holy Quraan that says: “He gives wisdom to whom He wills, and whoever has been given wisdom has certainly been given much good.” \u00a0 Of course the translation can never give the profound meaning that it is in its original language (Arabic) but the bottom line was I knew that the key is in getting wisdom \u2013 which I pray to god everyday to give to me- and as we all know that wisdom is a word we use for those who act right most of the time whether in their business, life choices, or in their daily interactions with other human beings.<\/p>\n

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I was at that point set off towards a more superior goal with finding and sharing Wisdom to make myself and others Happy. \u00a0I went through all kinds of sciences and myths that the different cultures had to offer; from palm readings to astrology to Feng Shui and face readings. \u00a0I would apply them on everyone and everywhere and some are accurate on parts and not so much on others. \u00a0Until that one day when I first got to read about handwriting analysis through Handwriting Analysis University by Bart Baggett and got my handwriting analyzed by the handwriting analysis wizard, which was 100% accurate! \u00a0And then with the few resources of \u00a0information I received and by applying them on my family and friends, I said to myself “This is it! \u00a0This is what I’ve been looking for!” \u00a0This is the science that will unlock all the doors for me and answer all my questions, and what could be more perfect than reading into people’s souls finding out what triggers them and what does not; finding out the roots of their problems and the reasons behind their success, as well as finally finding a way with helping them achieve their highest potential through grapho- therapy.<\/p>\n

From that perspective, every day after that, I started to learn more and apply what I have learned with everyone I met. \u00a0Most of the time it was 100% accurate\u00a0<\/span><\/strong>but there were times that I wondered why it didn\u2019t fit with the profile of each person I would examine with their handwriting. \u00a0Many times I suspected it was my simple knowledge at that time – especially since I was practicing it as a hobby and as an amateur analysts. \u00a0And some other times I felt it was because of the different culture that I am from with being an Arabic girl. \u00a0Whatever the reason was, one thing I was and I’m sure of is that handwriting never lies – especially when you take it from Handwriting University because I’ve read other books for handwriting analysis and found a lot of conflict within the same book let alone with what I’ve learned from Handwriting University.<\/p>\n

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Day by day, I continue to go deeper into the science and as I do, so many pictures become more clear in my mind. \u00a0My belief in this science grows stronger. \u00a0 It gave me the gift of understanding, and not only for one person at a time\u2026 but for the whole society at some point. \u00a0What is considered as a bad trait in America, it is sometimes a preferable trait in the middle east and vise versa. \u00a0This only made me wonder what will happen if we take of this trait or that?? What will happen if we change their handwriting?? Will that lead to people changing their believes and actions? Many questions that need a sufficient study to be able to talk about but for the time being here are some of the observations I found in the samples of our Arabic friends and its roots and reasons behind its happening. \u00a0Some are funny, some are controversial but in all cases it definitely will make you think twice before judging anyone:<\/p>\n

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As we all know that when the inside of an O is clear it means that this is someone who doesn\u2019t lie. \u00a0No loop equals a great personality right???? Well my dears, that may be in America but when you come to the Middle East you have to think twice about someone with no loops in their O’s and here is why: the trait’s name (no loops in the O) is Blunt and that is exactly what is unacceptable in our culture. \u00a0A blunt person is usually observed as rude.<\/p>\n

Everyone here knows the truth, they just don\u2019t want YOU to tell them that. \u00a0We are a nation of compliments\u2026 and we can’t live without it, you find it everywhere in everyone and with or without a reason to actually give a compliment. \u00a0For example, a friend calls you at 8 o’clock in the evening \u00a0just as you are about to sit down with your family and watch your favorite night show and tells you that he is coming over to have a cup of tea at your house. \u00a0Now normally this thing will never happen in America and if it did you would be so honest about it and tell him that it’s not a convenient time for you right now right??? Well that is one impossible thing to do here in the Arab world\u2026 no matter how messy your situation is no matter how inconvenient for you it is you can never ever say the truth about it. \u00a0When someone calls to come over you pay extra attention to show them how it is absolutely great idea and to show them they are mostly welcomed whenever and however\u2026 And if somehow the devil played with your head to actually say the truth and be a Blunt type of person , \u00a0I assure you that’s the fastest way to lose friends and families. \u00a0It’s practically social suicide!<\/p>\n

Now I’m not saying here lying is good\u2026 in fact lying is the one trait that whenever found in one person you can predict they’d do anything since they can get out of any situation by lying.<\/p>\n

People usually get confused between lying and giving small complements here and there \u2026 telling your wife she is beautiful is not a lie, it\u2019s a compliment\u2026telling someone who gave you a present you didn\u2019t like, that it was a beautiful gift is not a lie, \u00a0it\u2019s a compliment and courtsey.<\/p>\n

You can call a word as a lie when it has the three components below:<\/p>\n

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    Its not a truth<\/p>\n<\/li>\n

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    It’s not useful (it doesn\u2019t help someone build a good habit\/ belief or get rid of one)<\/p>\n<\/li>\n

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    It causes damage (into one’s self, into the recipient, or into a third party)<\/p>\n<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

    The last part is the most important part. \u00a0It’s what most people argue about: they think many times that lying is actually PREVENTING damage from happening to any of the parties I mentioned before. \u00a0But here comes a super important component that whenever you find it, this component can hurt\u2026 you should know you were LYING and that component is; your Pride\u2026your dignity\u2026 there is a saying “A man with every lie breaks part of his spirit..until there is no spirit left to break or redeem.” \u00a0I think that sets the criteria of what is a lie and what is a complement.<\/p>\n

    What is left to set out is that which kind of person to expect a lie from and which to expect a compliment from, knowing that both have a loop in their O’s.<\/p>\n

    If you find the O loop in a person with one or all the below traits then probably it’s LYING:<\/p>\n

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      Resentment issues<\/p>\n<\/li>\n

    2. \n

      Low self esteem<\/p>\n<\/li>\n

    3. \n

      Issues with the opposite sex<\/p>\n<\/li>\n

    4. \n

      Jealousy<\/p>\n<\/li>\n

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      Strong pen pressure<\/p>\n<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

      Most of the bad traits when you put the O loop with them it becomes lying. \u00a0Hey no one said that honest people are a blast in this world \ud83d\ude09<\/p>\n

      If you find the O loop in a person with one or all the below traits then its probably COMPLEMENTS:<\/p>\n

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        Diplomacy<\/p>\n<\/li>\n

      2. \n

        High self esteem<\/p>\n<\/li>\n

      3. \n

        Emotionally responsive<\/p>\n<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

        That being said you should keep in mind the good intentions all the time and experience is the best way to set things together in your mind, it’s never a one trait; it\u2019s the combination of those traits. \u00a0And from my point of view, I’ve seen people with a clear O and a low self esteem with go to hell K and they were so rude and obnoxious. \u00a0I didn\u2019t like them at all and on the other hand I’ve seen people with light O loops and a high self esteem and no unsolved issues kept inside .. and I found them sweetest than sugar. \u00a0It’s all about combining traits and understanding.<\/p>\n

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        The Y loops;<\/p>\n

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        What I’m talking about here are some major traits I’ve found on most of my friends’ handwriting samples (my Arab friends) and it came to me as no surprise since I live in the middle of Arab people all my life and I know exactly what to expect from everyone and why, as mentioned before on the O loop .. I expect many people to have that light loop inside their Os most of the time due to their complimenting nature. And now our discussion will go through one trait that reveals vitality and physical activity and that is the loop in the Y. \u00a0Whenever you find someone with a looped Y you can tell immediately that they are active in their daily life (physical wise) and that does include their sexual aptitude. \u00a0Now from the messages I get from the American media, I think that it’s okay to be physically active for men and women. \u00a0In fact, it’s preferable especially if you are looking for a good date, right??? Well, when you come to an Arab nation you will find that this special trait (if observed by an analysist) can either make you \u2026 or break you, especially for unmarried girls (girls between 18- 25). \u00a0Here is how it can make you or break you:<\/p>\n

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        In our culture the girl should be a virgin before marriage and practically not to have any kind of relationship with any man unless it is a pure friendship or a friendship in the intention of marriage. \u00a0The last one is where their parents are aware of this relationship, but in all cases one important condition is that there should be no physical interaction between the two at all, putting in mind that it’s rare to see an unmarried girl to put sport into her daily activities since they are either still studying or working. \u00a0The house chores are usually done by maids which leave us with what??? Yaa\u2026 a girl with a wide loop in her Y is a problem calling here! \u00a0And if someone asks me to either recommend her or not for their son I would probably PASS such situation . Recommending a girl with a straight Y would make me much more comfortable even if it means she is a loner or doesn\u2019t trust many friends.<\/p>\n

        I bet you didn\u2019t know that about us huh??? Well now you know.<\/p>\n

        The T bar:<\/p>\n

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        Would I be exaggerating if I say that half of our people have the (temper) trait in their T bar??? And the other half has the procrastinating type of T bar??? \u00a0Would my fellow Arabic friends agree or disagree with this statement??? Well I don\u2019t know all the answer and I definitely don\u2019t know all the facts since there is no sufficient study that conducted by me or anyone else in this regard YET. \u00a0But I do know some facts about our Arab nation that can give me a clue on why the majority of us either have temper issues or procrastinating issues. \u00a0For example, the NLP principles are new to us, brought to the Arab world just about 15 years ago by the great prof. Dr Ibraheem Al faqqi (R.I.P). \u00a0People are actually starting to listen more and apply more especially by the new generations and by the new parents. \u00a0In other words, most of our parents were using the old school methods in raising their kids most of them with very short temper -due to life pressures- not knowing that their kids are merely a mirror to their actions, now that is a FACT! \u00a0To this day, I observe many times some parental behaviors coming out from my daughter’s grandmother or from my friend’s mother that just make me think of what a messed up belief system that they are implanting in those kids\u2026 without their awareness\u2026 Such as \u2013 and this is like a national tradition – When a kid runs around the house playing and suddenly bumped his head on the door or something, naturally he cries a bit right???\u2026 Now imagine what would an elderly parent do??? Stop guessing I’ll tell you what they would do. \u00a0They would run to that door with their shoe and start beating the crap out of that poor door until the kid stops crying, asking him: “Tell me, did this door hit you??? Tell me??” \u00a0If the kid agrees, then they start beating that door some more.<\/p>\n

        So now imagine what would that do to the belief system of that kid\u2026 he will grow up thinking:<\/p>\n