{"id":14454,"date":"2016-02-27T12:18:43","date_gmt":"2016-02-27T21:18:43","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/handwritinguniversity.com\/members\/?p=14454"},"modified":"2016-03-20T20:51:43","modified_gmt":"2016-03-21T05:51:43","slug":"finding-the-positive-in-what-seems-like-a-negative-personality-trait","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/handwritinguniversity.com\/members\/weekly-newsletters\/finding-the-positive-in-what-seems-like-a-negative-personality-trait\/","title":{"rendered":"Finding the Positive Intentions Behind Unspeakable Crimes"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Every person who ever explained the results of a <strong>personality handwriting analysis<\/strong>\u00a0knows that it is more fun to share the positive traits than the negative ones.<\/p>\n<p>It is easy tell someone they are\u00a0generous. But, what\u00a0about\u00a0selfish and stingy?<\/p>\n<p>This short article talks about a simple mental process\u00a0you can ask yourself to turn the delivery of the most\u00a0critical type of negative personality trait into something compassionate and perhaps life-altering for the listener.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-14974 alignleft\" src=\"http:\/\/handwritinguniversity.com\/members\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/10\/negativebuttonskeyboardtiny.jpg\" alt=\"negativebuttonskeyboardtiny\" width=\"300\" height=\"300\" srcset=\"https:\/\/handwritinguniversity.com\/members\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/10\/negativebuttonskeyboardtiny.jpg 300w, https:\/\/handwritinguniversity.com\/members\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/10\/negativebuttonskeyboardtiny-150x150.jpg 150w, https:\/\/handwritinguniversity.com\/members\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/10\/negativebuttonskeyboardtiny-20x20.jpg 20w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>I recently wrote an article <a href=\"http:\/\/handwritinguniversity.com\/members\/weekly-newsletters\/how-to-share-very-negative-traits-in-a-very-nice-way\/\" target=\"_blank\">\u201cHow to Share Negative Traits in a Very Nice Way\u201d<\/a> in which I describe some ways to soften the information by turning statements into questions.<\/p>\n<p>In that article, I explained an approach that uses information gathering and questions instead of the usual information sharing technique to create ease in rapport with the person whose handwriting you are analyzing.<\/p>\n<p>And, to do that <strong>you must be able to actually understand the positive aspects of a negative personality trait.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Some are much harder to figure out\u00a0than others. \u00a0Unspeakable crimes are just things most of us see on TV shows and we will leave the FBI criminal profilers to speculate and write books. But in our own life, there are totally unacceptable behaviors that people do every day (lie, cheat, steal, punch, kick, etc.)<\/p>\n<p>A great thing about handwriting analysis is that almost every negative trait<span style=\"color: #ff0000;\"> can be reframed as something useful<\/span> to the person&#8217;s own life path&#8230; but you have to have some compassion and often tons of creativity to find that fresh perspective. \u00a0I discovered this profound shift in perspective when I studied the process of time line therapy and NLP based questions in the context of therapy.<\/p>\n<p>We were taught to ask about a particularly negative circumstance a client\u00a0might had found himself in this specific\u00a0question, &#8220;What was the positive intent of that choice?&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>Normally, this ANSWER (positive intention) relates to\u00a0a person&#8217;s sense safety, security, or survival.<\/p>\n<h3><strong>Remember this: People have deep need\u00a0to survive.<\/strong><\/h3>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-medium wp-image-14466 alignleft\" src=\"http:\/\/handwritinguniversity.com\/members\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/10\/we-are-driven-by-five-genetic-needs-survival-love-and-belonging-power-freedom-and-fun-quote-1-255x300.jpg\" alt=\"we-are-driven-by-five-genetic-needs-survival-love-and-belonging-power-freedom-and-fun-quote-1\" width=\"255\" height=\"300\" srcset=\"https:\/\/handwritinguniversity.com\/members\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/10\/we-are-driven-by-five-genetic-needs-survival-love-and-belonging-power-freedom-and-fun-quote-1-255x300.jpg 255w, https:\/\/handwritinguniversity.com\/members\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/10\/we-are-driven-by-five-genetic-needs-survival-love-and-belonging-power-freedom-and-fun-quote-1-17x20.jpg 17w, https:\/\/handwritinguniversity.com\/members\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/10\/we-are-driven-by-five-genetic-needs-survival-love-and-belonging-power-freedom-and-fun-quote-1-424x500.jpg 424w, https:\/\/handwritinguniversity.com\/members\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/10\/we-are-driven-by-five-genetic-needs-survival-love-and-belonging-power-freedom-and-fun-quote-1.jpg 560w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 255px) 100vw, 255px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>As people\u00a0grow up, people ask themselves (either consciously or subconsciously), \u201cHow do I survive?\u201d and \u201cHow do I get past this terrible situation?\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Through the survival strategies they create, they develop traits that can be positive and can be negative.<\/p>\n<p>Almost <strong>every negative trait (even for the most psychotic people at some level) arises from thinking, \u201cIf I adopt this personality trait, <span style=\"color: #ff0000;\">if I adopt this behavior, my propensity to survive will increase.\u201d<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Think about all the popular TV shows like <em>Criminal Minds<\/em> and <em>CSI<\/em> with the darkest profiles of people and criminals on them. You may wonder, \u201cHow in the world does kidnapping or doing the things that they do help them survive?\u201d In their very warped minds, they feel their actions are paths to get them some sort of emotional fulfillment and, indeed, survival is one of those.<\/p>\n<p>In this article, I am not going to show you how to identify these traits in the handwriting. I\u2019m operating with the pre-supposition that you already have some basic knowledge of handwriting analysis and the methodology\u00a0we teach here at Handwriting University. \u00a0If you do not, you might want to <a href=\"http:\/\/handwritinguniversity.com\/members\/weekly-newsletters\/criminal-mind\/\" target=\"_blank\">hear a clip from the Certification Course<\/a> on the idea of criminal minds.<\/p>\n<p>Here I\u2019m going to go into more detail on how the negative traits develop so that you can better grasp the concept of why people develop such NEGATIVE traits,\u00a0communicate them more gently and thus have enough rapport to help them change. \u00a0 Because after all, helping people transform is the biggest reason of all to study handwriting analysis.<\/p>\n<h2><strong>How Unique Personality Traits Are Developed In Humans<\/strong><\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone wp-image-14458\" src=\"http:\/\/handwritinguniversity.com\/members\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/10\/psychology_nature_or_nurture_t_shirt-rc7057e40892c444bb63a5a10a24107a0_804go_512.jpg\" alt=\"psychology_nature_or_nurture_t_shirt-rc7057e40892c444bb63a5a10a24107a0_804go_512\" width=\"342\" height=\"342\" srcset=\"https:\/\/handwritinguniversity.com\/members\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/10\/psychology_nature_or_nurture_t_shirt-rc7057e40892c444bb63a5a10a24107a0_804go_512.jpg 512w, https:\/\/handwritinguniversity.com\/members\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/10\/psychology_nature_or_nurture_t_shirt-rc7057e40892c444bb63a5a10a24107a0_804go_512-150x150.jpg 150w, https:\/\/handwritinguniversity.com\/members\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/10\/psychology_nature_or_nurture_t_shirt-rc7057e40892c444bb63a5a10a24107a0_804go_512-300x300.jpg 300w, https:\/\/handwritinguniversity.com\/members\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/10\/psychology_nature_or_nurture_t_shirt-rc7057e40892c444bb63a5a10a24107a0_804go_512-20x20.jpg 20w, https:\/\/handwritinguniversity.com\/members\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/10\/psychology_nature_or_nurture_t_shirt-rc7057e40892c444bb63a5a10a24107a0_804go_512-500x500.jpg 500w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 342px) 100vw, 342px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>There is a lot of debate about <strong><span style=\"color: #ff0000;\">nature versus nurture<\/span><\/strong> (whether people are \u201cborn that way\u201d or develop their traits). For the purpose of easing a conversation about negative traits, let\u2019s assume that the traits are learned.<\/p>\n<p>Making that assumption allows you to shift the focus from the negative trait to the reason the trait was created.<\/p>\n<p>Each person is born with the strong urge to do whatever it takes to survive and to survive in the best way they possibly can. It is instinctual. <strong>Our bodies and brains are constantly motivated by our survival instincts<\/strong>\u00a0(usually) for\u00a0our best interests.<\/p>\n<p>That impulse, that instinct to survive is very important to understand in childhood because when a young person devises a strategy (even subconsciously devises a strategy) that seems to help them survive, that child will repeat that strategy again and again when faced with similar situations.<\/p>\n<p>And, that pattern of behavior will continue into adulthood and will become a part of that person\u2019s personality and way of interacting with the world.<\/p>\n<p>With every person, in every instance, we can always agree that at some point the person was born. Every, single time. No exceptions.<\/p>\n<p>So, in a pinch if you are looking for a place to start where you\u2019ll get agreement, you can say, \u201cSo, you were born, right?\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Your client\u00a0may be puzzled by that question but will answer \u201cyes\u201d and with that agreement you\u2019ve gotten a little openness.<\/p>\n<p>Then, you can proceed with a possible story or scenario.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>------------ Special Newsletter Reader Offer ------------\r\n\r\n<a href=\"http:\/\/www.myhandwriting.com\/adgeneral.html\"><img src=\"http:\/\/www.myhandwriting.com\/images\/adgeneral.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"432\" height=\"360\" \/><\/a>\r\n<br>\r\nVisit the discount page now.<\/b><br \/>\n<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<h2><strong>Events<\/strong><\/h2>\n<p>You may or may not end up discussing the specific events that formed these patterns or traits, but you can assume the events are there. \u00a0These &#8220;root causes&#8221; are often the key to an effective therapy session or even hypnosis or time-line therapy. \u00a0<strong>Something was at\u00a0cause.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>The important thing is to get the person thinking in those terms of &#8220;When did I make that decision to become this way.&#8221; \u00a0Cause is key!<\/p>\n<p>You can say: \u201cThere\u2019s an event that happened in your past when you felt you needed to protect yourself in some way and because of that, you developed this trait.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>You can give a possible example of how that might work.<\/p>\n<p>You can start with something general like, \u201cYou know how after a child touches a hot stove and gets burned, that child will not touch the stove again?\u201d You\u2019ll get a nod or a yes (agreement!) and you can continue, \u201cWell, this is like that\u2026\u201d You can pause to let it sink in, or you can continue with more specifics if you like.<\/p>\n<p><strong>The more times you can get agreement in your conversation, the more open the person being analyzed is likely to be,<\/strong> and that is especially important when you are sharing traits that can be seen as negative.<\/p>\n<p>So, seek those opportunities for agreement. Shifting the focus back to the events that occurred is a great technique to use.<\/p>\n<p>Let\u2019s look at a few specific traits to understand better what I mean.<\/p>\n<p>In <a href=\"http:\/\/handwritinguniversity.com\/members\/weekly-newsletters\/how-to-share-very-negative-traits-in-a-very-nice-way\/\" target=\"_blank\">\u201cHow to Share Negative Traits in a Very Nice Way\u201d<\/a> I went into some detail about Fear of Success, Domineering, and Lying. Refer back to that article about those traits.<\/p>\n<p>In this article, I will go into a bit more detail about Shyness, Stinger (Issues with the Opposite Sex), and Pride.<\/p>\n<h2><strong>Shyness<\/strong><\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-14459 alignleft\" src=\"http:\/\/handwritinguniversity.com\/members\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/10\/url.jpg\" alt=\"url\" width=\"259\" height=\"195\" srcset=\"https:\/\/handwritinguniversity.com\/members\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/10\/url.jpg 259w, https:\/\/handwritinguniversity.com\/members\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/10\/url-20x15.jpg 20w, https:\/\/handwritinguniversity.com\/members\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/10\/url-175x131.jpg 175w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 259px) 100vw, 259px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Again, there can be debate about whether a person is born shy or not. \u00a0I had a person who justified his shyness by his myers briggs label. \u00a0&#8220;I&#8217;m an INTJ, therefore I still still have voices in my head telling my I am not good enough.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p><strong><span style=\"color: #ff0000;\">Don&#8217;t use labels as an excuse for keeping bad mental habits.<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n<p>In this context, it does not matter because what helps you have a productive conversation is to help a person see how Shyness could have been a\u00a0survival strategy in the past&#8230; and is it needed now?<\/p>\n<p>So, a person is born, and there may have been events that happened along the way that might make them have a reaction to situations that we call Shyness.<\/p>\n<p>A typical scenario that you can use as an example is a person may have gotten up on stage in a talent show or something and had people in the audience laugh at them; so, they decided it would be safer (a better way to survive) if they did not put themselves out there, if they would blend into the background and not be noticed for ridicule.<\/p>\n<p>You can say, \u201cA lot of people who have Shyness have some event in the past when they reached out. They were vulnerable and they got laughed at. They got mocked, and they were not approved. Did something like that happen in your past where you felt that you were not being accepted and therefore the safest way to protect your ego was to withdraw?\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Or, \u201cYou felt it was safer to not even risk being noticed.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>The key points to keep in mind with Shyness are the risk of being noticed and the risk of rejection.<\/p>\n<p>Take yourself back to the events that may trigger the Shyness survival mechanism, and they will usually boil down to strategies to avoid the risk of being noticed or the risk of rejection.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<h2><strong>Stinger (Intermitten Reinforcement Complex)<\/strong><\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-14460\" src=\"http:\/\/handwritinguniversity.com\/members\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/10\/issueswithoppositesexgrapho1.jpg\" alt=\"issueswithoppositesexgrapho\" width=\"268\" height=\"184\" srcset=\"https:\/\/handwritinguniversity.com\/members\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/10\/issueswithoppositesexgrapho1.jpg 268w, https:\/\/handwritinguniversity.com\/members\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/10\/issueswithoppositesexgrapho1-20x14.jpg 20w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 268px) 100vw, 268px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>(<strong>Expanded definition of this trait in 2015. \u00a0<a href=\"http:\/\/handwritinguniversity.com\/members\/weekly-newsletters\/a-bad-case-of-the-stingers\/\" target=\"_blank\">Go here to read it.\u00a0<\/a><\/strong><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/handwritinguniversity.com\/members\/weekly-newsletters\/a-bad-case-of-the-stingers\/\" target=\"_blank\">http:\/\/handwritinguniversity.com\/members\/weekly-newsletters\/a-bad-case-of-the-stingers\/<\/a><\/p>\n<p>This one is something people often look for in dating situations.<\/p>\n<p>It reveals, as you know, unresolved issues with the opposite gender.<\/p>\n<p>This is one trait in which we clearly define that there is an underlying, unresolved issue. It is a part of the definition of the trait.<\/p>\n<p><strong>It is tricky to share information about this trait because if they are in a relationship now, they will deny that they have the issue.<\/strong> They may say, \u201cWell, I used to be that way. I used to have resentment, but I\u2019m in a great relationship now, and we don\u2019t have that problem.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>And, all the attraction hormones are the same thing that will turn to anger later when they do not get their way in the relationship.<\/p>\n<p>You can say, \u201cI\u2019m noticing you have a unique attraction to certain members of the opposite gender, ant that attraction is not always healthy. Sometimes you pick people who are hard to get.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Often, you\u2019ll get a reaction like, \u201cYeah, I like the bad boys\/girls.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>You can then explain that this attraction can sometimes turn into a little bit of unresolved resentment that can create problems with making a healthy relationship.<\/p>\n<p>You can continue with a very powerful phrase, \u201cSometimes you may start fights just to see who is stronger.\u201d<\/p>\n<p><strong>\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n<h2><strong>Excessive Pride &amp; Vanity.\u00a0<\/strong><\/h2>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-14461\" src=\"http:\/\/handwritinguniversity.com\/members\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/10\/prideanddignitygrapho.jpg\" alt=\"prideanddignitygrapho\" width=\"350\" height=\"250\" srcset=\"https:\/\/handwritinguniversity.com\/members\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/10\/prideanddignitygrapho.jpg 350w, https:\/\/handwritinguniversity.com\/members\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/10\/prideanddignitygrapho-300x214.jpg 300w, https:\/\/handwritinguniversity.com\/members\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/10\/prideanddignitygrapho-20x14.jpg 20w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 350px) 100vw, 350px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>(<strong>201 Trait Dictionary<\/strong> owners: <a href=\"http:\/\/handwritinguniversity.com\/members\/courses\/level201\/pride-dignity\/\" target=\"_blank\">click here to learn more about the &#8220;Pride and Dignity&#8221;\u00a0personality trait.<\/a>\u00a0If you do not have access to the 201 Trait dictionary, <a href=\"http:\/\/handwritinguniversity.com\/products\/201\/\" target=\"_blank\">click here to get registered for full access.<\/a>)<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #ff6600;\"><strong>This is probably my MOST annoying to be around\u00a0negative trait of the last couple years.<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p>I\u2019ve found that people who have vanity have no place in my inner circle. It is very difficult to deal with. It is not only annoying but also tends to be accompanied with a high level of deceit, and it is a condescending attitude.<\/p>\n<p>It is sort of like, \u201cI\u2019m better than you, and people should treat me like royalty.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>So, how could that be a survival mechanism?<\/p>\n<p>Perhaps it was a part of that person\u2019s family or community culture and so to survive and fit in, they adopted it.<\/p>\n<p>It can also arise from insecurity. They have a low self-esteem and actually see themselves in a low light; so, to survive in a world where they actually see most people as being better than themselves, they create a false ego.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"wp-image-14462 alignleft\" src=\"http:\/\/handwritinguniversity.com\/members\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/10\/i-wish-my-muscles-were-as-big-as-my-ego.jpg\" alt=\"i-wish-my-muscles-were-as-big-as-my-ego\" width=\"176\" height=\"237\" \/><\/p>\n<p>That false, more inflated, ego creates a perception of how others should treat them.<\/p>\n<h3>So, how can you present that in a friendly way?<\/h3>\n<p>I usually say something along the lines of: \u201cYou have a unique perception of your self-worth, and because of that, I think you find a lot of people don\u2019t stack up to your criteria. So then there\u2019s a slight feeling that you\u2019re a little bit better than other people, and they need to step up their game and treat you better.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>If you\u2019ve got enough rapport to be honest with them, you can say, \u201cI must say that trait comes with a little bit of self-delusion and so you are constantly feeling that others are not respecting you as much as you deserve. That feeling has a little to do with your insecurity because your true self-image does not match up with your perception of how others should treat you.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>I usually use my hands and as I say \u201ctrue self-image,\u201d I indicate a low point. When I say, \u201cperception of how others should treat you,\u201d I move my hand up or use my other hand to indicate the distance, the gap between the two.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-medium wp-image-14467\" src=\"http:\/\/handwritinguniversity.com\/members\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/10\/beingprettyisaJOB-300x175.gif\" alt=\"beingprettyisaJOB\" width=\"300\" height=\"175\" srcset=\"https:\/\/handwritinguniversity.com\/members\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/10\/beingprettyisaJOB-300x175.gif 300w, https:\/\/handwritinguniversity.com\/members\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/10\/beingprettyisaJOB-20x12.gif 20w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><strong>When people have pride, they have an artificially inflated ego with underlying self-esteem issues. \u00a0They annoy me&#8230; but I&#8217;m trying to have compassion.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<h2><strong>Summary<\/strong><\/h2>\n<p>When you clearly understand the variety of underlying reasons a person would adopt a trait for survival, you are better able to communicate in a way so that what you are saying can be heard and absorbed.<\/p>\n<p>Basically, people are attracted toward pleasure and motivated away from pain.<\/p>\n<p>Ask yourself, \u201cHow could they have developed that trait? What could have happened?\u201d By simply asking that question to yourself or to the person you are analyzing, you will have at least one (and maybe two or three) possible answers.<\/p>\n<p>By asking that, you remove the responsibility from them. You are not blaming them or judging them or making them bad or wrong. You are indicating that you are seeking to understand and help them understand what is going on, and you will not get defensiveness. You will generally get curiosity as a response, and you will be able to fully share the information you see in the handwriting \u2013 but in a palatable way.<\/p>\n<p>If you are actively engaging in counseling or even working on changing yourself, this process of finding the root cause and reframing using language is key to success and lasting change. \u00a0It is covered in over 23 modules of the new program Unstoppable You. \u00a023 Videos and even guided meditation tracks to download.<\/p>\n<figure style=\"width: 900px\" class=\"wp-caption alignnone\"><a href=\"http:\/\/unstoppableyou.net\/learn-more.html\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"\" src=\"http:\/\/unstoppableyou.net\/images\/UnstoppableYou_Bundle_3D_02-bb_medium.png\" alt=\"\" width=\"900\" height=\"527\" \/><\/a><figcaption class=\"wp-caption-text\">Click here to read more about this Neuro-Auditory Therapy based program by Bart Baggett.<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p><strong>------------ Special Newsletter Reader Offer ------------\r\n\r\n<a href=\"http:\/\/www.myhandwriting.com\/adgeneral.html\"><img src=\"http:\/\/www.myhandwriting.com\/images\/adgeneral.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"432\" height=\"360\" \/><\/a>\r\n<br>\r\nVisit the discount page now.<\/b><br \/>\n<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Every person who ever explained the results of a personality handwriting analysis\u00a0knows that it is more fun to share the positive traits than the negative ones. 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