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How to Spot A Liar Through Handwriting<\/strong><\/p>\n

Lying and keeping secrets are mental habits which we can get accustomed to very easily.  If this habit is not handled in childhood, then kids grow up to be adults who lie when the truth would have been better.  Some people lie even when they don\u2019t have a clear purpose to do so.<\/p>\n

Most people think lying is always bad.  But, what if is just another defense mechanism which has spiraled out of control?<\/p>\n

\"\"The science of Handwriting helps you understand the difference between tiny “white lies”, “secrets”, and the dreaded “pathological or compulsive liars”.  This insight gives you deeper insight into their motive. It helps you understand how the act of lying or telling only half the truth makes total sense to them. And, be damned you for not understanding!<\/p>\n

Read on to know how you could spot the various degrees of honesty and lying very easily from a short sample of cursive handwriting.<\/p>\n

Our ability to communicate and our capacity of knowledge are based on the false assumption of honesty.  The better assumption is that most people are motivated by security and safety first.  If they grew up in an environment where the truth created “pain” or “the threat of pain”, then lying to avoid that pain became an acceptable defense mechanism.<\/p>\n

Some people lie more than others.  Most people don’t always tell the whole truth… if they did, they would be despised and called “blunt.”  What do you say when a woman you care about says, “Do I look fat in this dress?”<\/p>\n

In that moment, some secretiveness or white lie is always the acceptable answer to keep you out of trouble.<\/p>\n

There are also big liars that seem to be honest at the surface, but their levels of self-deceit and defensiveness are so high that they get caught in a lie and make up more lies to cover up their transgression.  “It’s your fault I lie. Because you can’t handle the truth.”<\/p>\n

Most people perceive bluntness and rude.  Most people perceive secretiveness as “normal”.  And most people perceive lying as unacceptable.<\/p>\n

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