{"id":183,"date":"2008-11-18T01:22:30","date_gmt":"2008-11-18T10:22:30","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/handwritinguniversity.com\/members\/?p=183"},"modified":"2018-03-16T20:15:26","modified_gmt":"2018-03-17T05:15:26","slug":"searching-for-peace-she-slipped-into-abyss","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/handwritinguniversity.com\/members\/weekly-newsletters\/international-articles\/searching-for-peace-she-slipped-into-abyss\/","title":{"rendered":"Do you need to have a &#8216;valid&#8217; reason to feel disappointed."},"content":{"rendered":"<div class=\"entry\">\n<div class=\"snap_preview\">\n<div class=\"wp-caption alignleft\">\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/writechoice.files.wordpress.com\/2008\/09\/blues.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-medium wp-image-308\" src=\"http:\/\/writechoice.files.wordpress.com\/2008\/09\/blues.jpg?w=270&amp;h=180\" alt=\"HUES THAT REFLECT MY BLUES\" width=\"159\" height=\"106\"><\/a><\/p>\n<p class=\"wp-caption-text\">HUES THAT REFLECT MY BLUES<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<p><a title=\"Posts by Vishwas Heathcliff\" href=\"http:\/\/writechoice.wordpress.com\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><strong><br \/>\n<\/strong><\/a><\/p>\n<p><span lang=\"EN-IN\"><strong>Disappointment, we know<\/strong>, is the feeling of dissatisfaction that follows the failure of expectations to manifest. We all experience disappointment: troubled marriage, poor job evaluation, death of loved ones, health issues, social and romantic snubs, husband\u2019s or wife\u2019s coldness in bed. I believe some reasons do merit our <em>ooh, aah, ouch<\/em>. But the raison d\u2019\u00eatre of some disappointments is really silly. You don\u2019t have to look too far. Take Lundroo, for example. Recently, Lundroo was extremely disappointed with a period movie. You know why? Because he went to the theatre expecting a lot of bloodshed in the film. Nobody ever told him that period movies need not necessarily have bloodshed.<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\"><!--more--><span lang=\"EN-IN\">The point I\u2019m trying to make is that we don\u2019t really need to have a \u201cvalid\u201d reason to feel disappointed. Sometimes most of us behave like Lundroo. Depending on what our expectations are, just about anything can let us down. When we fail to fulfil our wishes and find ourselves staring at the buttock of our goals, disappointment sinks in, perhaps as smoothly and slickly as a pin would into our derri\u00e8re if we happen to sit on it \u2014 wittingly or unwittingly.<\/span><\/p>\n<div class=\"wp-caption alignleft\">\n<a href=\"http:\/\/www.handwritingwizard.com\/\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-17115\" src=\"https:\/\/handwritinguniversity.com\/members\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/12\/wizard_ad_2017.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"450\" height=\"375\" srcset=\"https:\/\/handwritinguniversity.com\/members\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/12\/wizard_ad_2017.jpg 450w, https:\/\/handwritinguniversity.com\/members\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/12\/wizard_ad_2017-300x250.jpg 300w, https:\/\/handwritinguniversity.com\/members\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/12\/wizard_ad_2017-20x17.jpg 20w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 450px) 100vw, 450px\" \/><\/a>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/writechoice.files.wordpress.com\/2008\/09\/dpression71.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-medium wp-image-310\" src=\"http:\/\/writechoice.files.wordpress.com\/2008\/09\/dpression71.jpg?w=200&amp;h=240\" alt=\"WILL I EVER GET OUT THIS MESS?\" width=\"145\" height=\"174\"><\/a><\/p>\n<p class=\"wp-caption-text\">WILL I EVER GET OUT THIS MESS?<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\"><span lang=\"EN-IN\">Some people pluck the pin out, shrug off the bad experience, forget the hurt and move on to meet new challenges and try their luck afresh. But many people just don\u2019t know how to pull it out, for they lack the strength and determination for it. They don\u2019t talk about their pain and choose to remain quiet, thinking that their silence would ultimately melt into serenity and peace. But it does not happen. The result: very soon, the piece of metal becomes carcinogenic and it begins to eat them up, slowly but steadily. Consequently, a simple disappointment turns into depression, which devours your appetite for almost all kinds of pleasure.<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\"><span lang=\"EN-IN\">Many people ask me if it is possible to find out through handwriting analysis whether is suffering from depression or not. The answer is a resounding yes. Presence of depression is immediately detected from certain factors in a handwriting sample. The first one is the overall direction of the baseline and the frequent rise and fall of words. Depression is usually accompanied by confusion and stress, shown by several strokes including variable size and shape of letters.<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\"><span lang=\"EN-IN\">Before I tell you how to find depression in handwriting, permit me to tell you a small story. When I was learning handwriting analysis in Calcutta, I used to bank heavily on my friends and office colleagues whom I used to badger into giving me their handwriting samples for practice. And many did cooperate. <\/span><\/p>\n<div class=\"wp-caption alignleft\">\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/writechoice.files.wordpress.com\/2008\/09\/dpression41.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-medium wp-image-314\" src=\"http:\/\/writechoice.files.wordpress.com\/2008\/09\/dpression41.jpg?w=238&amp;h=300\" alt=\"THE WILT SHOWS MY GUILT\" width=\"149\" height=\"187\"><\/a><\/p>\n<p class=\"wp-caption-text\">SEE MY SHAME: THE WILT SHOWS MY GUILT<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\"><span lang=\"EN-IN\">However, there was one friend who promised to give me her handwriting sample, but she never delivered. Interestingly, she did not even say she was not interested in getting her handwriting analysed. She just kept delaying, which was making me furious. In absence of a clear NO or a straight answer, my&nbsp; determination becomes like Samson (Radhas and Anuradhas in my life know that). <\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\"><span lang=\"EN-IN\">So at last, my determination and persistence assassinated her procrastination. One evening, she handed over to me one and a half pages of her handwriting sample on unlined paper. The moment I looked at it I discovered that the person behind the smiling face was like a frightened child with a traumatic childhood who believed nothing will work out for her. She felt cheated in her relationship because she had slept with her boyfriend who was now shamelessly exhibiting post-sex symptoms. Stalked by a feeling of sexual guilt coupled with the darkness that \u201cengulfed\u201d her future, she had become enormously depressed and was also contemplating suicide. Worse, she did not look beyond the relationship and refused to look at other options.<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\"><span lang=\"EN-IN\">\u201cWhat is this? You never told me anything. Relax, things will be alright\u2026. Don\u2019t worry,\u201d I reassured her, trying to be as supportive as possible. I also gave her some graphotherapy exercises. She said she would practise them.<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\"><span lang=\"EN-IN\">I left Calcutta soon after that. Six months later, I got to know she had gathered the courage to dump the scoundrel and was getting married to another person. I am not sure whether she completed the exercise or not. I am not much interested in knowing that. She is doing well and that is enough.<\/span><\/p>\n<p>------------ Special Newsletter Reader Offer ------------\r\n\r\n<a href=\"http:\/\/www.myhandwriting.com\/adgeneral.html\"><img src=\"http:\/\/www.myhandwriting.com\/images\/adgeneral.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"432\" height=\"360\" \/><\/a>\r\n<br>\r\nVisit the discount page now.<\/b><br \/>\n<\/p>\n<div class=\"wp-caption alignleft\">\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/writechoice.files.wordpress.com\/2008\/09\/downhill.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-315\" src=\"http:\/\/writechoice.files.wordpress.com\/2008\/09\/downhill.jpg?w=280&amp;h=200\" alt=\"BASELING OF THE HANDWRITING GOING DOWNHILL\" width=\"280\" height=\"200\"><\/a><\/p>\n<p class=\"wp-caption-text\">PICTURE A: BASELINE OF THE HANDWRITING GOING DOWNHILL<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\"><span lang=\"EN-IN\">I can\u2019t show you her handwriting, but I will surely tell you <\/span><span lang=\"EN-IN\">how I saw at once that she was depressed. The baseline (the imaginary straight line on which alphabets rest) of her handwriting was consistently going downhill. (See an imitation of her writing in picture A). The other factor which complicated matters for her was the way she crossed her t-bars: they were really low on the stem (see picture B). People with low t-bars in their handwriting are shaken up by even small problems in life and tend to indulge in self-blame. They are often unable to leave the failures behind and believe that something wrong has happened to them because they \u201cdeserve\u201d it. They keep on irrigating the land on which depression grows and thinking about <a href=\"http:\/\/writechoice.wordpress.com\/2008\/05\/16\/sad-slide-into-suicide\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><strong>suicide<\/strong><\/a> is very common for the depressed. If you feel this way, talk to somebody about it. If you think somebody else might be thinking this way, ask them about it. You might save a life \u2014 your own or someone else\u2019s.<br \/>\n<\/span><\/p>\n<div class=\"wp-caption alignleft\">\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/writechoice.files.wordpress.com\/2008\/09\/t-bars12.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-322\" src=\"http:\/\/writechoice.files.wordpress.com\/2008\/09\/t-bars12.jpg?w=142&amp;h=125\" alt=\"LOW T-BARS IN 'IT' AND 'PAINT'\" width=\"142\" height=\"125\"><\/a><\/p>\n<p class=\"wp-caption-text\">PICTURE B: LOW T-BARS IN &#8216;IT&#8217; AND &#8216;PAINT&#8217;<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\"><span lang=\"EN-IN\">On the other hand, a person with high t-bars has a greater efficiency to fight and <\/span><\/p>\n<div class=\"wp-caption alignright\">\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/writechoice.files.wordpress.com\/2008\/09\/writing3.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-medium wp-image-339\" src=\"http:\/\/writechoice.files.wordpress.com\/2008\/09\/writing3.jpg?w=210&amp;h=157\" alt=\"UPWARD SLANT OF HANDWRITING REFLECTING OPTIMISM\" width=\"210\" height=\"157\"><\/a><\/p>\n<p class=\"wp-caption-text\">PICTURE C: UPWARD SLANT OF HANDWRITING REFLECTING OPTIMISM<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\"><span lang=\"EN-IN\">struggle to survive. Such a person possesses the strength to unload the baggage of the past. Likewise, if downhill baseline is indicative of depression and unhappiness, an uphill slant reflects utter optimism (see picture C). Such writers always believe that things will for sure be better in future. And they are more successful too because they are always positive in their approach. <\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\"><strong>MEET A VITRIOLIC VIKRAM<\/strong><\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\"><span lang=\"EN-IN\">In this post, I am analysing the handwriting sample of Write Choice visitor Vikram Shah. Mr Shah, the first thing I notice about your handwriting is your irritable temperament. You are sensitive about your ideas and your appearance. If anyone challenges your viewpoint on any matter, you begin to argue very hard to prove your point. You become sarcastic, your comments become scathing and the atmosphere gets tense. Because for you, losing that argument means losing your identity. Yes, it\u2019s right. You derive your sense of identity from your ideals, thoughts and philosophy. Also, whenever you feel that someone is making fun of you, you snap back. Sometimes your replies are so harsh that you end up spoiling relationships. You don\u2019t realise that more often than not your behaviour acts contrary to the way you should be to fulfil your needs. You look for people who genuinely like you and who will not make even one negative comment about you. The moment he does, you feel he is from the \u201cenemy camp\u201d. Dude, you imagine a lot about what people say about you. In fact, when you see two colleagues talking in a corner of the office, you safely assume that they are talking about you, your manner, your dress, your body etc. And from here begins all the problems because you trust your hunch more than anything else.<\/span><\/p>\n<div class=\"wp-caption alignleft\">\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/writechoice.files.wordpress.com\/2008\/09\/scan2.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-340\" src=\"http:\/\/writechoice.files.wordpress.com\/2008\/09\/scan2.jpg?w=303&amp;h=478\" alt=\"VIKRAM SHAH'S HANDWRITING\" width=\"303\" height=\"478\"><\/a><\/p>\n<p class=\"wp-caption-text\">VIKRAM SHAH&#8217;S HANDWRITING<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\"><span lang=\"EN-IN\">Also, you can\u2019t take no for an answer. The fear of no stops you from taking many steps in life. You are an extremely moody person too. <\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\"><span lang=\"EN-IN\">I see in your writing that you are not unhappy with your current profession: you are TERRIBLY unhappy with it. You don\u2019t think you are in the right job. You plan well, but when it comes to executing the plans, you find yourself at a loss.<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\"><span lang=\"EN-IN\">Mr Shah, another interesting thing your handwriting reveals that though you argue really hard to prove your point and are sarcastic of others, the truth is that you do not like yourself for many things.<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\"><span lang=\"EN-IN\">You have difficulty trusting people and you have a very limited friend circle. At financial, physical and sexual level, you are facing some serious issues. In your relationships too, you are stressed.<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\"><span lang=\"EN-IN\">From your handwriting, I see a great deal of mother influence on your life. You miss your dad, too. Maybe because he is emotionally or physically absent from your life.<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\"><strong><span lang=\"EN-IN\">POP A PEN KILLER<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n<div class=\"wp-caption alignright\">\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/writechoice.files.wordpress.com\/2008\/09\/correct.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-343\" src=\"http:\/\/writechoice.files.wordpress.com\/2008\/09\/correct.jpg?w=256&amp;h=93\" alt=\"CORRECTED\" width=\"256\" height=\"93\"><\/a><\/p>\n<p class=\"wp-caption-text\">CORRECTION<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\">Mr Shah, please write \u201cI will get going and have my way\u201d for at least 30 days. The things that you need to keep in mind is: your y\u2019s and g\u2019s should be similar to what you see in CORRECTION. Besides, your capital I should be printed. And keep it slightly bigger than your usual size. Also, increase the size of your signature and bring your first name ahead of your second name. Do not abbreviate your first name in the signature.<\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\">I hope you enjoyed reading it. Please post your comments in the space below. Do tell me if there is anything specific you want me to discuss in this space.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n\n------------ Special Newsletter Reader Offer ------------\r\n\r\n<a href=\"http:\/\/www.myhandwriting.com\/adgeneral.html\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"http:\/\/www.myhandwriting.com\/images\/adgeneral.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"432\" height=\"360\" \/><\/a>\r\n<br>\r\nVisit the discount page now.<\/b>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>HUES THAT REFLECT MY BLUES Disappointment, we know, is the feeling of dissatisfaction that follows the failure of expectations to manifest. 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